Changes

There comes a moment when our lives change forever. The moment we admit our weaknesses, the moment we rise to a challenge, the moment we accept a sacrifice, or let a loved one go. And sometimes the change in our lives is an answer to our prayers.

Laugh

“After a while, you just want to be with the one that makes you laugh.”

Thank you- CHOUKRAN

The new resolution of this year is to learn Arabic this I promised all my Lebanese family and best friends, but I did not know it is a big headache, I took 6 sessions till now, but my language did not get any better, of course I know how to write my name and my family name say sabah el kheir ( good morning) and some basics and those six sessions did not add anything new to me except a headache, I want to thank my family and my best friend who encourage me to start learning Arabic and to start having a big headache and feeling like a stupid in a class where everyone is enjoying the course except me :(

I Love you

The world is filled with good fathers. How do we recognize them? They’re the ones who are missed so terribly that everything falls apart in their absence. They’re the ones who love us, long before we’ve even arrived. They’re the ones who come looking for us when we can’t find our way home. Yes, the world is filled with good fathers. And the best are the ones who make the women in their lives feel like good mothers...
I Love You

The past

Sometimes the past is something you just can't let go of. And sometimes the past is something we'll do anything to forget. And sometimes we learn something new about the past that changes everything we know about the present

Go Big

They say the bigger your investment, the bigger your return. But you have to be willing to take a chance. You have to understand, you might lose it all. But if you take that chance, if you invest wisely the pay off might just surprise you.

My bag

You know that I love bags, but today I wanted to go without it, mine is maybe 3 kg full of stuff some useful and some I never used it but I moved it from bag to another wallet, keys, pencils, pens, papers, phone, charger, nail polish, coins, papers ,dvds , mirror, gloss, eye liner, business cards, eye drops, USBs, umbrella Girls if you have any useful ideas I want ur help!

Surprise!!

When something begins, you generally have no idea how it's going to end. The house you're going to sell becomes your home, the roommates you were forced to take in become your family and the one night stand you were determined to forget becomes the love of your life.

Giving...

Everyday we get to give the gift of life, it can be painful, it can be terrifying, but in the end it's worth it. Every time. We all have the opportunity to give. Maybe the gifts are not as dramatic  the gift is to try and make a simple apology, maybe it's to understand another person's point of view, maybe it's to hold a secret for a friend. The joy supposedly is in the giving, so when the joy is gone, when the giving starts to feel more like a burden, that's when you stop. But if you're like most people I know, you give till it hurts, and then you give some more.

Life is different

For me the world is quite different than a typical classroom. There isn’t one right answer that leads to a clear reward, and facing the wall of choices in front of each of us can be quite overwhelming. Although family, friends, and neighbors will happily give us pointed advice about what to do, it is essentially our responsibility to pick our own direction. But it is helpful to know that we don’t have to be right the first time. Life beyond school presents each of us with many opportunities to experiment and recombine our skills and passions in new and surprising ways.

Men Men Are Just Happier People :O)

- Your last name stays put.

- The garage is all yours.

- Wedding plans take care of themselves.

- Chocolate is just another snack.

- You can be President.

- You can never be pregnant.

- You can wear a white T-shirt to a water park.

- You can wear NO shirt to a water park.

- Car mechanics tell you the truth.

- The world is your urinal.

- You never have to drive to another gas station restroom because this one is just too icky.

- You don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt.

- Same work, more pay.

- Wrinkles add character.

- Wedding dress 2000. Tux rental $100.

- People never stare at your chest when you're talking to them.

- New shoes don't cut, blister, or mangle your feet.

- One mood all the time.

- Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat.
- You know stuff about tanks.

- A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase.

- You can open all your own jars. You get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness.

- If someone forgets to invite you, he or she can still be your friend.

- Your underwear is $5 for a three-pack.
- Three pairs of shoes are more than enough.

- You almost never have strap problems in public.

- You are unable to see wrinkles in your clothes.

- Everything on your face stays its original color..

- The same hairstyle lasts for years, maybe decades.
- You only have to shave your face and neck!!.

- You can play with toys all your life.

- One wallet and one pair of shoes

- one color for all seasons.

- You can wear shorts no matter how your legs look.

- You can "do" your nails with a pocket knife.

- You have freedom of choice concerning growing a mustache.

- You can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives on December 24 in 25 minutes

No wonder men are happier.

Never judge a book by its cover !

When I was younger I get impressed with smart and educated people Easley..an MIT Graduate student a young manger , a famous pop start…all that changed when I get my masters from a great school and when I became more mature and i met many people from all over the world , all that has changed..I discovered that people have many sides and what we see could just be one side that we like about that person you have to live and to know well this person before deciding if he/she is impressionable.. So give them more time to prove themselves..Never judge a book by its cover.

Hard Night....

Every day when I am rushing to come to my office I see men and women sleeping in the street, that we are used to see them next to metro station o sleeping or singing some playing music but we never thought of them when we are walking in this busy life but when I reach my office, I thought of them and how it is life hard for them..and if there is any way to help them..


This  post is for them! :-(

A real friend

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving much advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares

Runaway Groom

If you have the opportunity to meet with a single man over 35 try to ask him why he is single?

And he will answer you this:

• I am too picky

• I don’t have time

• Good women are hard to find

• I travel a lot

• I am a workaholic

• Searching for the big love

• I hate divorce

• Girls are so demanding and fake

In fact those are classical fake answers for a single 35 and up man ….its like they lived 35 years and up searching for the right one and they did not find it …come on guys ….

you want the real story, and after chatting with a 40 year old friend that I cant mention his name here, and many like him , the majority men over 35 single are afraid, yes believe me they are so afraid from the responsibility , oh yea they could be a CEO for a company a brilliant doctor, or a genius but they are afraid to lead a family… and the problem of that family…. in another hand there are so few searching for that big love but when they will reach the 45 or 50 and did not find it they will get married any girl just because they have to make a family oh yes they have to..

This is my opinion am not against a single man but please when you ask you why you are single just answer This

1- It is out of your business

2- I hate responsibilities

I am sure they will leave you alone

I know you will ask me why I am single and I will answer you

Because men over 35 hates responsibilities :O)

Perfect....

I admit it's tempting to wish for the perfect boss - the perfect parent - or the perfect outfit. But maybe the best any of us can do is not quit, play the hand we've been dealt, and accessorize what we've got.

Dont worry you are STUPID!!

can't remember me in the Metro?
You dont even remember my name?
Stop scratching your head!!!
Maybe you haven't been getting enough sleep.
Maybe you had  many glasses of wine last night.
Or maybe your acting stupid

But Dont Worry You are STUPID

Lines

At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That's how we're made. So, you can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines... that are way too dangerous to cross

My TOXIC Friends

Here are 5 possible signs of toxicity to watch out for:

1) Are you too needy? Are you always the one who asks to get together? Are you the one putting forth all the effort in the relationship? Friendships need to be reciprocal. Even an ideal relationship may not be balanced every day or even every year but there's a give-and-take that evens out over time. If you are constantly asking for attention, advice, support, time or even material favors from your friend, or are demanding more than they're able to handle, it's not unreasonable for them to grow weary of your neediness.

2) Are you too volatile? Do you blow-up each time things don't go your way or do you tend to hide your feelings until they spew out when they can no longer be contained? No one likes to be with a friend who is intense, unpredictable, and seething, or who is unwilling or unable to work out little problems (before they become big ones) by talking about them.


3) Are you too moody? Everyone has his or her ups and downs but it's difficult to be with a moody person no matter what the relationship. Are you always in the throes of depression? Are you so energetic to the point that you exhaust the people around you? If your moods seem too intense for others to bear or if your moods cycle rapidly, it may be off-putting.

4) Are you too blunt or invasive? Are you the type of person that always says what's on your mind and expresses every thought totally unvarnished? Do you probe and ask questions regardless of whether your friend is ready to answer them. Are you so pushy that you make friends squirm in their seats? Close friends need to be kind and respectful of each other's feelings, not say everything that comes to mind, and be sensitive to and responsive to the lines their friends draw around them.

5) Are you too insecure? Do your friends always make you feel one down to the point that you feel like you need to brag, lie or aggrandize your own situation? Do you hold back or feel too shy to talk, to disagree, or to set boundaries? Are you unable to talk about things that are important to you? If most people make you feel this way, you need to look inside and see how you can make yourself feel better.


If you have lost a friend or two in succession, it may not be anything to worry about. But when you begin to recognize a pattern of lost friendships, one after another, intermittently, or very often, it's time to take notice and at least consider the possibility that it's you, not her :O)

Guilty

There is a widely read book that tells us everyone is a sinner. Of course, not everyone feels guilt over the bad things they do. In contrast, there are those who assume more than their share of the blame. There are others who soothe their consciences with small acts of kindness... or by telling themselves their sins are justified. Finally, there are the ones who simply vow to do better next time, and pray for forgiveness. Sometimes, their prayers are answered.